Be YOU… And Nobody Else!

Posted on 14. Jan, 2010 by Eric Goldstein in Entrepreneur Mindset, Law of Attraction, Leadership, Mindset, Personal Development, Relationships, Spirituality

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People are always asking me… “Eric, what is the secret to building a business online?” I can see it in their eyes that they are looking for a strategy or the next hottest tip. Most of them are thrown back when I tell them “Be YOU… And Nobody Else!”

You can have all the strategies and tools in the world… but if you are not being YOU, then it’s all for nothing. You will still continue to chase people around, trying to get what you want. I’ve been there, done that… and its damn tiring!

So it’s truly about being yourself and being transparent. I talk more about this in the video below… Check It Out:

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So are you up for the challenge that I put in front of you in this video? If so, share your thoughts at the bottom of this post by leaving a comment… and if you are not, share why you’re not.

Also, send this out to your Twitter & Facebook buddies. This is an IMPORTANT message that more people need to hear. Thank you for sharing your time with me here today!

Speak soon my friend…

Yours In Empowerment,
Eric Goldstein

P.S. The more true to yourself you can be… the happier you will be! Stop being a people pleaser and be a YOU pleaser:)

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39 Responses to “Be YOU… And Nobody Else!”

  1. Maryanne Baer

    09. Mar, 2010

    Hi Eric. I stopped being a people pleaser a long time ago, and i find it a healthier way to live. I have learned not to care what people say about what i am doing in my life, because the optimum word is my LIFE.

    Thank you for the inspiration and the videos. Homie is cool, wish i had one.

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  2. Janice

    25. Jan, 2010

    I’m so with you Eric, it is indeed about self acceptance… the more we accept ourselves the more we accept others and life just magically flows….

    love Homie by the way!!

    xox

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    • Eric Goldstein

      25. Jan, 2010

      Hey Janice,

      Happy to hear that you ‘get it’. You said
      the magic words… “when we accept ourselves
      we accept others”.

      So beautiful… create that magic Janice!

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  3. Chris Kilber

    23. Jan, 2010

    What I love about everything is it is not difficult. You only have to be YOU!

    Thanks Eric.

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  4. Jacki

    22. Jan, 2010

    Eric,

    This is such an important awe inspiring message for everyone. I like Justin’s comment about embracing it and the snowball effect and also about revisiting the videos. This is already my second time watching this video.

    Just being ourselves without the worries of what others think…who could guess how liberating that would be for so many. I have had more than one person tell me in business, just as life, people have to know you, like you and trust you. If you are not being yourself you blew it on all 3 counts and people will figure it out.

    Thanks again to you and your homie,
    Jacki

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    • Eric Goldstein

      23. Jan, 2010

      Jacki,

      Thanks for your good words about
      my video… When we let our authenticity
      flow, we connect with others that are a
      match to our vibration… and it feels do
      damn GOOD!

      Justin was right on with his comment. I
      have certain videos and audios that inspire
      me and remind me of things, that I go back
      a revisit often.

      Keep being YOU…

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  5. Cheryl

    19. Jan, 2010

    Beautiful!

    Thanks…

    Once again for your inspirational words.
    I live in truth and TRANSPARENCY all the way!!
    woo hoo!
    Cheryl
    P.S. A new series of Souful paintings are in the the pre-production phase ;)

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  6. Angelia

    18. Jan, 2010

    Your advice is absolutely correct. In the last week, I’ve been contacted by a 501-3c art organization and an art manufacturer because they liked what they saw of me. I did not seek these people out – THEY found ME! Anyone who doubts what Eric said, just think about it. Do YOU spend your time and energy on people who are NOT authentic?

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  7. Clifton Hatfield

    17. Jan, 2010

    Eric, I love your videos because they always have such a positive outlook and optimistic message. Being yourself is the only way to be true to yourself and build success. Looking forward to more vids.
    Clifton Hatfield´s last blog ..Are You a Tigger or an Eeyore? My ComLuv Profile

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    • Eric Goldstein

      17. Jan, 2010

      Hey Clifton,

      Thanks for the good words. I always like
      to look at things from a positive aspect. There
      always is a positive perspective:)

      More on the way my friend!

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  8. Jennifer Hart

    16. Jan, 2010

    Can I get an Amen! Great post Eric. I feel this is one of the fundamental keys to success…knowing who you are and expressing that fearlessly out in the world. This is something I’ve been working on and getting stronger with every day. Thanks to inspiring leaders like you who remind us to KEEP GOING! Thanks for sharing. Smiley :)

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    • Eric Goldstein

      17. Jan, 2010

      Jennifer,

      AMEN… haha! It’s so amazing how the
      Universe responds when we are being
      authentic and transparent.

      Keep on keepin’ it real:)

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  9. Joey Caiola

    16. Jan, 2010

    Totally awesome video Eric! I could not agree more with you!

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  10. Justin Woolley

    16. Jan, 2010

    Eric,

    The importance of that message just can’t be underestimated, because once you fully embrace it the snowball effect of positivity and fulfillment into other areas of your life and/or business is huge.

    It’ll be good to come back to this video from time to time as a nice little reminder to just enjoy being me and to always keep it real.

    You rock mate, thanks for sharing.

    Cheers, Justin.
    Justin Woolley´s last blog ..Overcoming The Urge To Reinvent The Wheel My ComLuv Profile

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  11. Lance

    15. Jan, 2010

    Hi Eric,
    Great to meet you! And this IS a great message to get out. I found it to be so, so true – when I step outside that box of conformity, and let that “real me” out…amazing things start to happen. I look especially over the last year, and how just 12 months ago I never would have imagined I would have met the amazing people I have. Door DO open!
    Lance´s last blog ..Be Remarkable! My ComLuv Profile

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    • Eric Goldstein

      16. Jan, 2010

      Right on Lance!

      The more that you can be YOU, the
      more the things that you want show
      up… it’s as simple as that.

      We’ve set desires in motion from the
      non-physical side of us… and when we
      are being us, we are in alignment with
      those desires… and they flow into our
      experience.

      Thanks for stoppin’ by:)

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  12. Damayanthi

    15. Jan, 2010

    Hi Eric,

    Great advise.

    You are so right when try to please others we lose who we are. The more we connect with us and know what we truly are it is going to be much easy. It will be a work-in-progress for me.

    Thanks again Eric.
    Damayanthi

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    • Eric Goldstein

      15. Jan, 2010

      Damayanthi,

      We will continue to be a ‘work-in progress’.
      Some think we will get to a place where we
      ‘get it all done’… life is ever expanding. We
      are eternally ‘incomplete’…

      Love and Light:)

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  13. Rich

    14. Jan, 2010

    Good stuff Eric. The truth will set you free!

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  14. Gene Pomerants

    14. Jan, 2010

    Hey Buddy,

    Thanks for posting this. It’s just what I needed today.

    How did you know?

    Gene :)

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    • Eric Goldstein

      14. Jan, 2010

      G1,

      What’s up buddy? The Universe works
      in magnificent ways! The more I am myself,
      the more I find the Universe using me to
      deliver needed messages to others.

      Pretty cool place we live in:)

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  15. Toki Tover

    14. Jan, 2010

    Hey Eric!

    I am truly digging into this type of mentality. I was so freakin scared to do anything because I was always afraid to be judged. NOT ANYMORE! I am just going to DO ME and have fun building my own business… I mean you can’t just go out there and make this whole process a party but allow enough to mesh with great marketing and the lifestyle will follow…

    Thanks for Keepin’ It Real!

    Toki Tover
    Toki Tover´s last blog ..Is It A Mistake Looking For “Niches” To Tap Into? My ComLuv Profile

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    • Eric Goldstein

      14. Jan, 2010

      Toki Toke…

      You ROCK girl! Be yourself and you will
      attract so many people that want what
      you have to offer.

      When we leave what everyone else thinks
      out of the equation… we are in true alignment
      with who we are.

      Keep sharing your brilliance!

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  16. Joey

    14. Jan, 2010

    This is such an awesome point Eric! I could not agree more!

    Thanks For The Knowledge,
    Joey Caiola

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    • Eric Goldstein

      14. Jan, 2010

      J-Man!

      Thanks for stoppin’ by… You definitely
      are true to who you are, and it shows
      by what’s happening in your life!

      Keep it real bro…

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  17. Jean

    14. Jan, 2010

    thank you Eric,
    this is a great message,It took me a long time to
    realize this, I am myself and no one else.
    it is hard to do at times.
    thank you for sharing this.

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    • Eric Goldstein

      14. Jan, 2010

      Jean,

      We can definitely find ourselves
      slipping away from this at times,
      and when that happens we can
      feel it emotional.

      Such a great guidance system we have!

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  18. Murry Thurman

    14. Jan, 2010

    Great post Eric! You nailed it on this one my friend. Getting in touch with who you are and not trying to please everyone is so crucially important, not only to your success but to your happiness in life.

    You are NEVER going to please everyone and odds are If you don’t have any enemies, or people who do not agree with you then you probably don’t know WHO you are and never stood for anything.

    Murry

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    • Eric Goldstein

      14. Jan, 2010

      Murry,

      Thanks for the share bro! The more
      authentic and transparent we are, the
      more we get what we want…

      What a beautiful Universe we live in:)

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  19. Ryan

    14. Jan, 2010

    Eric,

    This is sooo true. I gave up the fact of trying to be a people pleaser back when I turned a senior in high school. I love your little HOMIE. It all comes back to knowing WHO you are. A lot of people don\’t know who they are. They think they do, they might do certain things to make them think they know who they are, but they don\’t. It took me A long time to figure this out. I\’m still in the process of figuring it out but I know what I want in life.

    Eric, you are such an inspiration to everyone out there. I\’m so glad to have met you and everyone else.

    Keep up the good work – Ryan

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  20. Loic

    14. Jan, 2010

    Eric,
    You teach with simple words how to be successful and how to improve life of others; I learn

    Thanks a lot
    Loic

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